Love relationship and work- The winning Entry from Article Writing Competition

The time is changing and so are the paradigms of the world. The gender reflections are not the
same as the used to be. The modern man and woman are the tombstones of cohesiveness and
mutual understanding. The recent incredible performances by the female athletes in the Rio
Olympics are indicative of the changing times and how these times are not absorbing the advent
and cultural transformation of the fairer sex enjoying the good fruits of their hard work and sheer
commitments.
An anonymous writer has beautifully said,
“Times change and so does the people,
What stays behind are the moments lived and
The footprints on the barren sands,
That sing of the love and the compassion
Through the times of the pains and the dedication….”
These beautiful lines are trying to say that love is a commitment that requires inherent devotion
and multitude facets of emotions that needs to be garnered with the hardships of life. If you
have agreed to be an individual’s companion you are expected to be ready to be beside them
in dire times. You are not just supposed to be supportive pillars but also, someone who makes
them aware of their faults and hindrances. Be motivating forces when the spirits are low and all
seems too hard to achieve.
The present working generation is transfixed in many a things. This is the age that you have to
work and establish a career and same is the age to fall in love head over heals. Aspirations and
dreams are flooding the head and choices are critical in paving the road to future. These
decisions have far fledged impacts both on the mental and physical well being of an individual.
Hence, one needs to be really conscious and thoughtful when arriving at deciding conclusions
that will be having such after effects.
I am a believer in relishing the flavours life gives to us. And these flavours teach you to be
patient and help you to understand the turns life can take. Establishing a peace between work
and relationships is a tedious task for somebody. A working woman is symbolic of aspirations
and rising against the obstructions of the male dominant society eagerly awaiting to curb her
down. A working man is symbolic of achievements and masculinity, who have established
himself in the cutthroat
arena of the world. Thus, both did go through a not so easy road. So at
the brink of their achievements, often situations arise that demand giving up or adjusting to
some unforeseen circumstances that needs to be catered to. Now the question will arise who
will be the one to make the harder decision. And these are the moments that are the tests of the
strength and depth of the love. Maturity and sensibility are important ingredients of a successful
relationship. A conducive environment of sharing thoughts and emotions is garnered when
maturity and sensibility is shown by two individuals. These are indicative of a long and
successful companionship.
“ When the river will meander to the tune of stones
When the rain will thunder to the light of moon
When all would be lost and you shall be alone
I will stand by you and fight till the ills are gone….”
Life is unpredictable and you never know what time has in store for you. Lord Krishna in The
Bhagvada Geeta mentioned that, karm karo phal ki chinta mat karo. How I see it : it basically
says carry out your occupation without expecting/making a fuss over the result , as the result is
not in your grasp , as you can concentrate yet can not be in control on thr result of your
decision, you can purchase the lottery yet winning is not in your grasp , a specialist may do a
decent surgery yet its result is not in his control , it can be found in each part of life , result might
be normal especially yet the efforts are extraordinary. Like in the event that you have benefited
work , you can be sensibly guaranteed of good result yet you can not control its result according
to ur decision . In the event that we concur that yes , result is not in our grasp, then why stress
for something which is not in our hands.In certainty stressing for result or dread of
disappointment will unfavorably influence our execution , and which can bring about to negative
result.
Love is a beautiful notion to be lived and felt and enjoyed. Be it the bad days or the good ones.
Do live every moment. It ain't that hard to establish a balance between the the work and
lovelife.
All you need a bit of patience and trust in yourself that what so ever be the
circumstances, you won't give up and would always try to make things good. Its the monetary
achievements in life that drive you to success but the efforts you make to keep hope of people
alive in dire times. A hopeful soul can fight against any thing.
In the end, I would just say,
“Love like a nascent bird, untouched by the malice of the world
Be tender and let the beauty of the world transpire itself
Love demands you to be patient and a believer
Because may the roads be blunt, love shall conquer all…..”

By:
Dr. Swati Sharma
Vivekananda Polyclinic
Lucknow